I was married to a deadbeat for less than 2 years, 20 years ago. He cleaned out my bank account and left. The last I knew of him, his own lawyers were suing him.
My life has continued beautifully with NO contact with him, whatsoever; I have moved/changing phone #'s 6 times since then (2 states, 4 cities). Suddenly, I'm getting calls asking if John "deadbeat" is here. I tell them I haven't had contact with him in 20 years, and how did they get my name (new last name BTW) and phone #? They won't say. I'm totally baffled.
Any ideas as to how they could have connected me with him after this long?